Gertrude M. Ehrsam, formerly of Syosset, died on April 23, 2000. She was born in Brooklyn. Wife of the late Charles B. Mother of Nancy J. Ehrsam , Janet A. Stingelin and the late Donald C. Ehrsam. Grandmother of Adam and Amy Ehrsam and Britnie and Erich Stingelin. Memorial Mass at St. Edward Confessor RC Church. Contributions can be made to the Make-A-Wish Foundation, 85 Old Shore Rd., Port Washington, NY 11050 or St. Jude Children's Hospital, PO Box 100, Dept. 3000, Memphis, TN 38148. Gilbert Tocherman, 83, a resident of Boynton Beach, FL for four years, formerly of Little Neck, died on April 28, 2000. Beloved husband of Elaine. Loving father of Yale, Sheryl, Elsie and Debra. Father-in-law of James and Marty. Devoted poppy of Jan-Michael, Christopher, Gabby and Adam. He will remain in our hearts forever.