Vera E. Bender, 94, of Southbury, CT formerly of Roslyn, died recently. Wife of the late Dr. James F. Mother of Theodore Sattler (Carol). Grandfather of James and Gregory Sattler. Friend and companion of Carol Natale. Arrangements were made by the Carpino Funeral Home, Southbury. Memorial service. Irving Sobolow, of Albertson, died recently. He was an officer in the Army during WWII and received two Purple Hearts and Accommodation. Husband of Gertrude. Father of David and the late Jeremy. Grandfather of Lora, Craig and Jeffrey. Brother of Gloria Meiseles and Elliot. Margaret J. Brodie, of Albertson, died on Jan. 26, 1999. Mother of Janice Alfano, Richard, Ronald, Peter and the late Gerald and the late Lewis. Grandmother of seven. Arrangements were made by the Weigand Bros. Funeral Home, Williston Park. Religious service. Interment Pinelawn Memorial Park.