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Feeling Grateful In Oyster Bay

Members of the Oyster Bay-East Norwich School district are feeling full of gratitude these days. The inspiration to think, feel and act with more gratitude stems from last month’s Special Education Parent Teacher Association (SEPTA) meeting in which Jeffrey J. Froh, PsyD presented his research findings in the field of gratitude.

SEPTA President and special education teacher Kevin McCarthy says, “Dr. Froh’s presentation on his newest book, Making Grateful Kids: The Science of Building Character, was a reaffirmation of how important being grateful as individuals can be. Dr. Froh was able to show, through his research, that the power of being grateful, and more importantly, teaching your children how to be grateful, can lead to a more positive, productive and fulfilling life. It was a wonderful topic that was well received by over 125 attendees. Our Special Education Parent Teacher Association was proud to present the program.”

Several attendees said the talk inspired them to make changes in their own lives. Parent Danielle Gangamella Taylor of Oyster Bay said, “it’s changed my life in so many ways. I made a point to make a gratitude visit after the talk. I think as parents we are always so hard on ourselves and I now think it’s important to take the time to appreciate our children and all the things we are doing well.”

School social worker Dr. Carole Brown said she shared the information from the talk with many of her students and had her leadership groups write a gratitude letter.  On a more personal note, she shared that after getting caught in a downpour and becoming completely drenched running from her car to her office she thought to herself, “I am so grateful I didn’t have to take the bus.”

Froh is an associate professor of psychology at Hofstra University and has been given a grant from The John Templeton Foundation to study gratitude in children and adolescents. His findings are astounding. He says, “Grateful teens are happier and more likely to give social and emotional support to others, are more satisfied with their lives, are physically healthier and tend to have higher GPAs.” Additionally, he says, “Gratitude and social integration create an upward spiral.” Because grateful teens are more likely to give social and emotional support to others, they tend to foster better relationships, therefore receiving more support and becoming more socially integrated.

Based on his research, Froh states, “Gratitude is accessible to anyone at anytime.”

Helping teens to become more grateful can be as simple as asking them to keep a gratitude journal. Students who kept gratitude journals saw an increase in happiness even months after stopping the writing.  

Lorraine Miller of Port Washington is the author of the journal From Gratitude to Bliss. She shared, “Gratitude is an essential ingredient for life success and the work that Jeff and his team are doing is vital to the health and happiness of our children.”

With young children, Froh recommends cultivating gratitude by encouraging them to share what was the best part of their day, foster an appreciation for nature and modeling, modeling, modeling. He says, “Empathy is the building block of gratitude,” therefore modeling empathy in the way that we treat others is imperative in raising grateful kids.

News

This year you can expect to see the Freedom Schooner Amistad, Connecticut’s flagship, tied up on the Western Waterfront Pier at the Oyster Festival on Oct. 18 and 19. The ship is a Baltimore Clipper that is 129 feet in length and weighs 96 tons. Its home port is New Haven, Conn.

The tall ship visits ports worldwide, as an ambassador for friendship. It serves as a floating classroom, icon and monument to many souls that were broken or lost as the result of the transatlantic slave trade.

The original Amistad, which means friendship in Spanish, was made famous in 1839 when 53 African captives (men, women and children) transported from Havana revolted against their captors. The captives gained control of the ship under the leadership of Sengbe Pieh, later known as Joseph Cinque, who commanded the ship’s navigator to return them to Sierra Leone. Instead, the ship headed north, landing in Long Island, and was taken into custody by the United States Navy.

Diamond Fitness held its grand opening on Saturday, Sept. 6. Members of the Historic Oyster Bay-East Norwich Chamber of Commerce came out to meet Wendy Goldstein, her staff and her re-invented gym at 138 South St.

Goldstein said she was touched by the warmth of the people who came into the gym to welcome her, even before the official opening. “People came in to say hello, saying they had heard that the gym had changed hands. It warms my heart,” she said.

Goldstein attended a chamber meeting and is now a member. Nassau County Legislator Donald McKenzie helped Goldstein cut the red ribbon as chamber members Walter Imperatore and Michele Browner cheered the opening along with staff members and friends.


Sports

Football season is here and the Oyster Bay-Bayville Generals  held their opening day games on Sept. 14. Here are the results:

5 & 6 Peanuts:

The Peanuts opened the season vs. the Seaford Broncos and came out on the losing end of a hard fought game. The Lil Generals opened the game on offense and quarterback Rodney Hill, Jr. marched the offense down the field and completed the drive with a touchdown pass to Francesco Allocca. Yes, the Peanuts have a potent air attack with Hill Jr. going two for two for 26 yards. The defense played strong with Allocca leading the team in tackles with help on the defensive line from first-year players Dean Wolfe and Anthony Pelchuck.  

Former football coach and NFL player Bill Curry recently brought a wealth of experience, knowledge and history to a wide audience of student-athletes and coaches at Hofstra University for a lesson on diversity, tolerance and respect in high school athletics.

 

Director of the NYS PHSAA Sportsmanship Committee and Manhasset High School Athletic Director Jim Amen Jr. established the summit and invited Curry as keynote speaker.

Amen Jr. and Section VIII Executive Director Nina Van Erk introduced Curry to a crowd representing more than 37 local high schools.


Calendar

Plein Art Exhibit

Wednesday, Oct. 1

College Discussion

Monday, Oct. 6

Collecting Manuscripts

Thursday, Oct. 9



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