Thursday, 27 June 2013 00:00
I never expected that looking out for my children would put me at the center of a public storm, and had no desire for media attention, yet here I am. Once again, I find myself having to respond to inaccurate stories.
First, I did not go to the media with the story of what followed the choking incident at Jackson. If I were going to bring that story to the media, I would have done it three months ago. I chose not to in an effort to keep everything positive for the children and the district. However, I was approached by the media after a letter that I had sent was given to reporters by Mrs. Parrino.
The letter is referred to as the “Ramos letter.” Laurain Jones and I wrote it in response to the board’s request for a detailed timeline of events following our request to meet with them.
So, NO, I didn’t just arbitrarily write a 5-page letter to the board. We followed the chain of command ending with the BOE. When I sent my response to the board on April 8, I considered it over.
A recent article in the Williston Times (not this paper) states: “She said the incident might not have been a factor in Hale’s decision to resign if the board had agreed to a meeting.” Totally not my words. I have spoken to the reporter, who apologized, saying, “that’s what I thought you meant.” Let me share what I said:
“It has been an unfortunate chain of events. I don’t feel that the situation was handled properly from the beginning. I feel that if we had met with the board and were able to ask and answer questions, there would have not been a continued exchange of e-mails increasing frustration levels and ultimately leading to Mr. Hale’s comments.
“While I don’t condone what Mr. Hale said, I certainly would not have taken action against him. We spoke about it, and as he did with the board, he apologized, I accepted, and it was over.
“I just want this to all end and the district to be able to again focus on the education of the children and not childish nonsense.”
Unfortunately, it didn’t end because Mrs. Parrino took it upon herself to not only release confidential e-mails between board members, but also personal e-mail exchanges between myself, Laurain Jones and the board. Mrs. Parrino made them public in what I see as an attempt to go out in a blaze. Mr. Hale resigned. That’s where it should have ended.
Mrs. Parrino’s comments to the press two weeks ago and her release of the e-mails brought up a situation, involving children, that was over. Mrs. Parrino, you brought turmoil to a finally settled district, and your blatant disregard for children has not gone unnoticed. I am disgusted that you would go to such great lengths to stir the pot and drag children into it.
To Mr. Hale: neither I nor anyone else could ever take away what you have done for the children in this district for many years. As I said to you, I was disappointed in what you said regarding a situation involving my child. You took ownership for your words, you apologized, I accepted and it is a disgrace that this is how it has to end.
In closing, I would greatly appreciate it if anyone has any questions or would like to see the letter that I sent to the Board, please just ask. There is nothing worse than coming into the middle of a conversation, hearing only parts of it, and drawing your own conclusions. I myself can see how reading the article without knowing the background can raise questions and anger.
Saturday, 11 October 2014 00:00
Audition Hosts: Eleanor Rigby’s Restauant, Mineola Village Hall, Piccola Bussola and Plum Tomatoes
Audition Team: Master Performance Artist Ed Dennehy of Huntington/ formerly of Mineola
Robert Busch, Little Neck and Melville Fire Department, Adrian Gaeckler: Oyster Bay/ Nassau Coliseum Staff, Nigel Gretton: Hempstead/ St John’s University Performing Arts Chair Lady Laura, Hempstead/ Global Performing Artist, Ralph DeSalvo: Williston Park, Musician/ Band Leader.
Al Trompeter, Entertainment Promoter
Special Touches: Bagelman of Mineola ( Entertainment Committee Host)
Creations de Belle of Mineola (Street Decorations/ Balloons)
Friday, 10 October 2014 00:00
Tom Hayden has been a member of Mineola Golden Age for nearly 20 years.
Growing up in Flushing, Queens, he has lived in Mineola for about 40 years. Hayden has five children—two on Long Island, two in Florida, and one in Maryland—and 13 grand-children, all girls.
Thursday, 16 October 2014 00:00
The Mineola Mustangs ended last year’s playoff run in a 34-6 drubbing from the West Hempstead Rams. Mineola was poised for another post season push in 2014 and it showed last week, with a 15-14 victory over the Rams in homecoming weekend.
With a slow start in the first half, Mineola (4-1) put their first points on the board in the second quarter with a field goal by senior Robert Lang. After a touchdown by the Rams (2-3), they headed into halftime 7-3.
Thursday, 09 October 2014 00:00
Despite two goals from Liam Going, the BU11 Mineola FC squad fell to a relentless and talented Hota Panthers team at Soccer Park in Plainview on Sept. 6. Hota jumped out to a 4-0 lead before Going connected on his first tally, launching a 30-yard free kick that dropped over the Hota keeper. The Mineola striker’s second goal brought his team to within two goals of their opponent, but Hota scored several more goals in the second half in a strong performance. Mineola’s Nicholas Buffolino and Luke Sommese gave solid efforts for Mineola in the season-opener for both teams.