Written by Rich Forestano Saturday, 15 February 2014 00:00
While half of marriages end in divorce today, one East Williston couple has a word of advice to current and future newlyweds: patience. Jim and Barbara Sandquist will be married for 64 years on Oct. 7 and will renew their vows on Valentine’s Day at Harbor Links in Port Washington, along with 90 other couples.
“You have to be forgiving,” Jim said. “You need to understand your partner and how they feel.”
Barbara says Jim is the one to not lose his temper, which keeps both of them in check during trying times.
“He’s very level,” she said. “We both have to have patience. It was hard at times, like with the holidays, especially when he was working.”
The two met at a dance in Lost Battalion Hall in Rego Park in 1948, just after World War II. Barbara, living in Hollis at the time, was out with her friends when Jim, of Corona, with his buddies in tow, noticed his wife-to-be.
“He kept bumping into me all night when he was dancing with some girl that looked like Joe DiMaggio,” said Barbara. “There were three of us."
Jim, true to his generous nature, offered Barbara a ride home.
“I knew right away that she was the one,” Jim stated.
The one condition? Her friends had to come with her.
“I wouldn’t leave without them,” Barbara said with a laugh. “He insisted that I sit in the front seat.”
They were married in Hollis, Queens at St. Gerard’s Catholic Church and honeymooned in Hollywood, Fla. But their biggest treks was across country twice with their children.
“From the petrified forest, to Yellowstone, all over,” Jim said. “That helped us a lot, being around each other.”
The two have cruised up the coast of Norway and floated down the Nile River. Traveling is in their blood, Barbara says.
Jim and Barbara lived in Queens before moving to Franklin Square in 1955 and then East Williston in Wheatley House in 1993.
Jim, 91, is a retired FDNY firefighter and served in the U.S. Navy during World War II. He worked for various insurance companies including Aetna and Cigna after leaving Hook and Ladder 22 in 1969.
Barbara worked for the Nassau County Supreme Court under numerous judges, including Joe Suozzi, father of former Nassau County Executive Tom Suozzi. She also worked for various lawyers and served as district clerk for the Franklin Square School District. Barbara retired in 1993.
She was also a fierce volunteer.
“I called it a hobby,” she said. “I volunteered at Democratic headquarters back then.”
Town Clerk Wayne Wink will help facilitate the vow renewal on Valentine’s Day.
“For many couples, this ceremony gives them time to reflect on their relationship and how they arrived here,” Wink said. “I’m married 11 years and I can only imagine how [the Sandquists] have gotten here.”
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Wednesday, 22 October 2014 00:00
Local school districts are reaffirming student hygiene standards in the wake of the non-polio enterovirus (EV-D68) that’s been found in the United States. A strain of the enterovirus was found in Southampton’s middle and high schools, but officials say it was not the virus that has caused the national EV-D68 outbreak.
The enterovirus disproportionately affects infants, children and adolescents who lack immunity, according to the Center for Disease Control. School districts have been notified to follow New York State Health Department guidelines to combat possible infections.
Saturday, 11 October 2014 00:00
Audition Hosts: Eleanor Rigby’s Restauant, Mineola Village Hall, Piccola Bussola and Plum Tomatoes
Audition Team: Master Performance Artist Ed Dennehy of Huntington/ formerly of Mineola
Robert Busch, Little Neck and Melville Fire Department, Adrian Gaeckler: Oyster Bay/ Nassau Coliseum Staff, Nigel Gretton: Hempstead/ St John’s University Performing Arts Chair Lady Laura, Hempstead/ Global Performing Artist, Ralph DeSalvo: Williston Park, Musician/ Band Leader.
Al Trompeter, Entertainment Promoter
Special Touches: Bagelman of Mineola ( Entertainment Committee Host)
Creations de Belle of Mineola (Street Decorations/ Balloons)
Thursday, 16 October 2014 00:00
The Mineola Mustangs ended last year’s playoff run in a 34-6 drubbing from the West Hempstead Rams. Mineola was poised for another post season push in 2014 and it showed last week, with a 15-14 victory over the Rams in homecoming weekend.
With a slow start in the first half, Mineola (4-1) put their first points on the board in the second quarter with a field goal by senior Robert Lang. After a touchdown by the Rams (2-3), they headed into halftime 7-3.
Thursday, 09 October 2014 00:00
Despite two goals from Liam Going, the BU11 Mineola FC squad fell to a relentless and talented Hota Panthers team at Soccer Park in Plainview on Sept. 6. Hota jumped out to a 4-0 lead before Going connected on his first tally, launching a 30-yard free kick that dropped over the Hota keeper. The Mineola striker’s second goal brought his team to within two goals of their opponent, but Hota scored several more goals in the second half in a strong performance. Mineola’s Nicholas Buffolino and Luke Sommese gave solid efforts for Mineola in the season-opener for both teams.