Written by Rich Forestano Saturday, 15 February 2014 00:00
While half of marriages end in divorce today, one East Williston couple has a word of advice to current and future newlyweds: patience. Jim and Barbara Sandquist will be married for 64 years on Oct. 7 and will renew their vows on Valentine’s Day at Harbor Links in Port Washington, along with 90 other couples.
“You have to be forgiving,” Jim said. “You need to understand your partner and how they feel.”
Barbara says Jim is the one to not lose his temper, which keeps both of them in check during trying times.
“He’s very level,” she said. “We both have to have patience. It was hard at times, like with the holidays, especially when he was working.”
The two met at a dance in Lost Battalion Hall in Rego Park in 1948, just after World War II. Barbara, living in Hollis at the time, was out with her friends when Jim, of Corona, with his buddies in tow, noticed his wife-to-be.
“He kept bumping into me all night when he was dancing with some girl that looked like Joe DiMaggio,” said Barbara. “There were three of us."
Jim, true to his generous nature, offered Barbara a ride home.
“I knew right away that she was the one,” Jim stated.
The one condition? Her friends had to come with her.
“I wouldn’t leave without them,” Barbara said with a laugh. “He insisted that I sit in the front seat.”
They were married in Hollis, Queens at St. Gerard’s Catholic Church and honeymooned in Hollywood, Fla. But their biggest treks was across country twice with their children.
“From the petrified forest, to Yellowstone, all over,” Jim said. “That helped us a lot, being around each other.”
The two have cruised up the coast of Norway and floated down the Nile River. Traveling is in their blood, Barbara says.
Jim and Barbara lived in Queens before moving to Franklin Square in 1955 and then East Williston in Wheatley House in 1993.
Jim, 91, is a retired FDNY firefighter and served in the U.S. Navy during World War II. He worked for various insurance companies including Aetna and Cigna after leaving Hook and Ladder 22 in 1969.
Barbara worked for the Nassau County Supreme Court under numerous judges, including Joe Suozzi, father of former Nassau County Executive Tom Suozzi. She also worked for various lawyers and served as district clerk for the Franklin Square School District. Barbara retired in 1993.
She was also a fierce volunteer.
“I called it a hobby,” she said. “I volunteered at Democratic headquarters back then.”
Town Clerk Wayne Wink will help facilitate the vow renewal on Valentine’s Day.
“For many couples, this ceremony gives them time to reflect on their relationship and how they arrived here,” Wink said. “I’m married 11 years and I can only imagine how [the Sandquists] have gotten here.”
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Saturday, 25 October 2014 00:00
Way before Home Depot or Ace Hardware came into existence, there were little mom-and-pop shops like Munder’s True Value on Hillside Avenue in Williston Park. The hardware store, which opened its doors in 1948, is somewhat of a suburban dinosaur having outlasted several other hardware stores in the area.
“My father, Charles, opened this store in 1948 after returning home from World War II,” said Bill Munder, who took over the store operation seven years ago. “His parents wanted to know his plans after he returned home from the marines and he decided to open this store on Hillside Avenue.”
Friday, 24 October 2014 00:00
The debate over New York State Common Core standards continues, with students from the Mineola School District showing a mild resistance to the exams.
According to the New York State Allies for Public Education, Mineola had some of the lowest numbers, with eight students opting out of the English Language Arts test. However, not a single Mineola student missed the math test. In East Williston, the opt out rates were 75 students in ELA and 60 in math.
Thursday, 23 October 2014 00:00
The New York Cosmos hosted the Mineola Athletic Association’s Soccer Club recently for its penultimate fall 2014 home game. More than 140 members of the MAA soccer club and their families came out on a chilly October evening to show their love of the game. Twenty-two Mineola boys and girls had the honor of escorting the New York Cosmos and Ottawa Fury players onto the field in the traditional “Walk of Champions.”
The Mineola spirit must have inspired the home team, as spectators enjoyed the exciting 2-1 Cosmos victory, with the game-winning goal coming in stoppage time.
Thursday, 23 October 2014 00:00
As a current member of the Mineola High School Varsity Soccer team, senior, Catherine Cunningham has been dominating the scoring for the Mustangs. She has 12 goals and two assists in the last seven games.
In her last week of play alone, she amassed six goals in just three games. As a captain for the last two years, Cunningham has been an All-Conference and All-Class player, leading her team to two victories so far this season.